| What
is Problem Gambling?
Problem
gambling occurs when a person continues to gamble excessively despite
experiencing a wide range of negative consequences. A preoccupation
and loss of control over one's gambling behavior can have an impact
in one or more areas of a person's life. For examples, gambling
may negatively impact several areas such as one's interpersonal,
financial, legal, educational/work, physical, and emotional wellbeing.
Interpersonal:
Are there problems with friends or family because of their gambling?
Financial: Are they spending, wagering, or borrowing more
money than they can afford?
Legal: Are they risking getting into trouble with the police
due to illegal acts to obtain money?
Education/Work: Is their school work or job suffering from
the time spent gambling?
Physical: Is their health (e.g., sleep, eating habits) being
affected by their gambling?
Emotional: Are they feeling more anxious, down, or even angry
because of their gambling?
Signs
of Problem Gambling
Some
signs that your son or daughter may have a gambling
problem include:
- Spends
a lot of time gambling and thinking about gambling.
- Misses'
school or grades start to worsen because of time spent gambling.
- Starts
to place larger and more frequent bets to maintain interest and
excitement produced by gambling.
- Experiences
mood swings and feels stressed when not gambling regularly or
trying to reduce or stop gambling.
- Promises
to stop or reduce their gambling but has trouble following through
with plan.
- Lies
or is secretive about gambling activities.
- Missing
personal belongings or cannot cover regular expenses as he/she
has used these to finance gambling activities.
- Borrows
or takes money from family members or friends to gamble.
- Keeps
on gambling because they believe that he/she can win back their
money and then stop.
- Gambles
as a means to escape or forget their problems.
- Family
members or friends are concerned that your son/daughter's gambling
is becoming serious.
It
is important to note that an individual with gambling problems will
not necessarily endorse all of these behaviors.
If I think my child may have a gambling
problem what should I do?
Remember
that the first thing you can do as a parent is to talk to your child.
Communicating with your child or teen begins with listening. As
a preventive measure you can talk to them about gambling to make
sure they understand the risks that can occur when gambling. Encouraging
conversation about gambling does not mean that you agree with the
behavior. In reality, it can help your child make informed decisions
about their own behavior.
Be
aware that children are more likely to gamble if they observe their
family members gambling or they hear their family members talking
excitedly about gambling. Discussing with your child that gambling
is a form of entertainment and not a good way to make money can
help them understand that in addition to being fun, there are risks
to gambling. Limiting or eliminating gambling activities in the
home (e.g. playing poker for money) and replacing these with non-gambling
family activities can help create a fun and healthy family environment.
If
you think your child is gambling or gambling too much you have many
options including seeking professional help. Here are some general
steps to follow:
- Get
informed about gambling and its risks.
- Be
aware of your own gambling behavior and beliefs.
- Encourage
discussions and questions about gambling.
- Listen
to what your child has to say.
- Set
limits of time, money and frequency of gambling if problems are
not severe.
- Seek
professional assistance if you think the problem is severe.
The
Bigger Picture
It
is important to remember that most people gamble without developing
a gambling problem. These people may occasionally buy a lottery
ticket or place a bet on a sport game. After they have placed their
bet or bought their ticket they engage in other non-gambling activities.
For others, gambling becomes a serious activity and can eventually
turn into a problem. Gambling problems can affect school work, mood,
and family/peer relationships and may even lead to illegal activities.
Not everyone will experience the same degree of gambling problems
as they can range from mild to severe.
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